Seven Deadly Bridal Sins

If you are anything like us, you have lists and lists of things to do to get ready for the big wedding day, checking off things as they get accomplished. But here is a little twist to your routine- a list of what NOT to do. Brides sometimes make rash decisions which can end up affecting the outcome of the big day. So check off this quick list of what not to do, and you will be ready to go!


1. Do NOT crash diet. This is SO bad for you in general, not even to mention as it gets closer and closer to the wedding. While it is good to make sure you are sleek and healthy to look amazing in your dress, it can often times make you dull and dreary. Nutritionists say to maintain a healthy weight loss, eat about 1,300 calories a day and aim to lose only about 2-3 pounds a week.


2. Do NOT focus on having the perfect wedding. We know, you want to make sure eveything is absolutely perfect. But you do not need to show up everyone who ever has had a wedding before yours. Trying to be the best will make you forget about what is truly important- you and your significant other.


3. Do NOT put aside your parent's and family's feelings. No matter when or how you are getting married, it is a big adjustment for everyone. Make sure to keep in mind the opinions and feelings of all involved and know that when they try to push their opinions on your, it's because they care.


4. Do NOT blow your wedding budget. Diamond studded silverware may SOUND like a good idea, but in the grand scheme of things may be something that you can do without. It may seem like not a bad idea to spend a little more than you were planning to, but you can plan an amazing wedding without having to pay it off for the next few years- Expenses add up quickly! Stick to the budget and you are sure to be able to have a fantastic event.


5. Do NOT let the wedding be the only thing you talk of. It is absolutely ok for you to be excited- we would be worried if you werent! But talking endlessly about the wedding gets old for everyone. Plus, it reveals all the surprises that should happen at then wedding!


6. Do NOT neglect your fiance. Even if they dont want to go over all the tiny details with you, it is still important to make time for the two of you. Planning can be stressful, especially if you are doing most of it yourself. Try to set aside at least one night a week for date night and spend some quality time together!


7. Do NOT become a total diva. Need we say more? While the big day is absolutely about you, not every single second up until then is as well. Most of the time acting like a dive will cause arguments and anger between ou and your family and friends, so just avoid it at all cost and have fun!










* inspired by~http://www.bridalguide.com/etiquette/the-seven-deadly-bridal-sins?page=0,4

There's a Bridesmaid Dress for Everyone

Bridesmaids come in all different types: short, tall, small, big, young, old- we love them all! However, each one is different, which means that your favorite style bridesmaid dress may not work for everyone. While your wedding day is ultimately about what you, the bride, want, it is important to make sure your girls feel comfortable in what you have chosen for them. An idea we especially like is that of using different style dresses for each member of the party. That way, not only will each girl's body type and style be accented in a way that is comfortable to them, but it also acts as a subtle yet visually pleasing detail to your wedding... And it makes the pictures look fabulous, too! Check out some of the different styles today's brides are choosing from:

*Pictures courtesy of: w-weddinggowns.com~simplyandforever.com~buyingweddingdresses.biz~davidsbridal.me

Day of Coordinator- To Have or Not to Have

So lemme guess- Spring has sprung and you are starting to plan all the intimate details of your big day. You intend on seeing that every item is attended to, which is no easy feat! (Trust us, we know) There is no right answer to if you need a Day of Coordinator or not, so we answered a few questions to help explain why having a Day of Coordinator on your special day may (or may not) be a huge help to you.

Why do you need a wedding coordinator?

• While planning may seem like a walk in the park, once you get started it can sometimes be overwhelming. Planners know even the tiniest details to include, and are used to setting a timeline to make sure all the details get the correct amount of attention.
• Planners can help create a manageable and reasonable budget, and most of the time can utilize connetions they have in the industry.
• Coordinators will work with you to make a timeline for the day of, so that they can deal with making sure all the vendors are where they need to be when they need to be there- Something you definitely do not want to be worrying about as you walk down the isle!

What should I look for in a coordinator? What questions should I ask?

• The #1 thing you want to pay attention to is if they are organized. You also want to feel at ease with them- You want to make sure you can express all your wants and needs to them in a comfortable way.
• A few questions to ask may be: How long have they been in the business? Do they have pictures and samples from past weddings? Are there certain vendors or venues they do or dont work with?

Is there a certain package I should get?

• Always ask if a coordinator has a planning package. There are generally 3 different types:
• Consultation Only: Your planner will send you off in the right direction, but you will only meet a few times. They will not be there the day of, but will make sure to provide you with enough information for you to be successful.
• Planning Preparation: They will get you set us with a planning binder and get you in contact with your vendors. They are more involved in the planning process, and will be there the day of if they can.
• Full Wedding Package: This is when you hire the coordinator for the actual day of the event. While their main day of work will be the day of, they will work with you a significant amount in the days and months leading up until the wedding.

Remember: It is completely up to you whether you choose to use a coordinator or not. But make sure to consider all the facts before making your decision. Happy Planning!

Pictures courtesy of: sheffields.com~penelopespitstop.net

White Out

I don't know about you, but we kind of like all this talk about wedding dresses being colors other than white. Don't get us wrong, white wedding dresses will always be beautiful and timeless, but we certainly aren't opposed to choosing something else. Below we help you explore your options:

White with an Accent: Too timid to step away from the traditional dress color? This is an excellent option for those looking to step out of the box, but only want to add a splash of color.

Ivory: In the mood for a traditional and classy look? Ivory is most seen in vintage and beach weddings. While it is the second most common color used for wedding dresses, it is still a nice deviation from the normal white.

Red: This color is definitely for those looking to make a statement! It is a stunning color, and also the color of love and passion. It is often the color of many Chinese wedding garments, as it represents good luck. The best time of year for this color is in the colder months around the Holidays.

Light Green: Green is the color of nature and life. A merry color, this may be best around Christmas or St. Patrick's Day. Don't want to seem too in touch with nature? A nice light green color will help get your desired effect, without being too overpowering.

Blue: Since it is the color of water, beach weddings and tropical themed weddings are where most blue dresses are found. It is a peaceful color and the color of faithfulness.

Black: Not necessarily a taboo dress choice! It definitely take a confident woman to wear this color on her wedding day. A color that shows elegance, you often times find it \paired with black-and-white themed weddings, or quirky and edgy weddings.